From
Turkey
to
Lebanon
to the
United State
When
you see my seventy-five-year-old great aunt you would think she is never sad,
because of her energetic personality and her great spirit, but inside she
feels sad. She feels sad because she misses her birth place
Turkey
and
Lebanon
were she spent more than half her life at. She spends most of her time at home
and cooks and cleans for guests who come over, but sometimes when she is alone
she thinks about why she came to the United States, she always says why, why
did I come to America I had a great life. When the Lebanese civil war broke
out she came to the
United States
, she always thinks about life before the war and she misses it. Now she sits
in a chair and thinks about her life before the
Americas
and tells stories to me and continues to think about life and the choices she
made in her life.
I was born in a village in
Turkey
called Iskandaroun, I was born on January 7, 1935.
My village was very poor but their was many great
people. My dad worked in a construction group and he built bridges, roads, and
rail roads. My dads name was Hagop and my mom’s name was Azadouhi, my mother
was a typical house wife. My life in
Turkey
was a dream because I don’t remember much, my family moved to another
country when I was at the age of three. We moved to
Lebanon
, the French had told the Armenians to move to
Lebanon
and that the government will pay each family and that it would give each
Armenian family a house and a job. They made us move because they thought that
there would be another Armenian genocide.
When
we moved to
Lebanon
we went to the capital of
Lebanon
,
Beirut
the best city in
Lebanon
. My dad continued to work in the construction business and mom was still a
house wife. But, now she had to take care of another two children. Their names
were Elizabeth and Nshan (
Elizabeth
was older than Nshan.) Many years later my mom had another two children their
names were Sona and Vartan. After living many years in
Beirut
,
Lebanon
my dad decided to retire and go to another city in
Lebanon
called Bourj Hammoud. Bourj Hammoud was filled with Armenians from other
neighboring countries like,
Syria
,
Jordan
,
Egypt
,
Jerusalem
, and
Iraq
. My father wanted to retire at Bourj Hammoud he opened up a small convenient
store. Many years later a civil war broke out, and me
and my small brother came to the
United States
. We came to visit but we decided to stay. We loved the society in
California
and we loved the people, we loved the
United States
because it is ran by law and that it was a free
country. Before I came to
America
I did clothing alterations. When I came to the United States I had the idea to
work but I wasn’t allowed to work because I did not have a social security,
and if I did I would get caught and sent to jail. When I came to the
United States
I knew that I was going to have a great life, because things were inexpensive
at that time and people were great (neighbors were great.)
I
wasn’t married when I was in
Lebanon
, when I came to
America
people encouraged me to get married. One of our relatives that lives
in
New York
kept on telling to meet their neighbor. They wanted me to meet him, because
they said that he was a great guy and the problem was that he was once married
before and he had three children.
Overall
my life in the
United States
is Magnificent, I would never go and live in
Turkey
, but if I have the chance I would go for a trip. If I move to another country
I would move back to
Lebanon
because it is a great country and people are great just like people in the
United States
.
Interviewed
by Sevak Boghossian